First of all, if you are feeling stuck emotions, depression, a sense of helplessness, it’s important to honor those feelings, spend time with them, feel them through and you may find yourself coming out of the tunnel on the other side with some new insights, refreshed energy levels, and some inspiration of what to do next.
Find out what’s blocking you. Dive deep into your feelings to see if you can “see” what’s holding you back. Do you need to let go of something, forgive yourself or someone else, speak your feeling to someone? Or are you just trying to control something that is not yours to control? Practice Self-Reflection. Step out of yourself, and take a serious look at yourself from an objective point-of-view. What do you see?
Sometimes the only thing that will help at the moment is to just take a nap.
Sleep as much as you need to.
Start a journal ~ If you can write every day before you even get out of bed or while you have your morning coffee, just dump all of your thoughts and feelings onto the pages.
I like to do a ‘stream of consciousness” writing where I write down every thing that I am hearing ( like the fan), feeling in my body, any thoughts that come up , random things that I think about. This can give you some insight into what it is that’s bothering you.
It’s also a way of getting in touch with your intuition.
After journaling each day, just say a simple prayer ” Heavenly Father, Divine Mother, Friend, Beloved God, Angels and guides, I surrender these feelings and thoughts to you. show me what I need most today on my journey to self-healing. guide me by your loving hand to make the right choices for my life. If I cannot handle my feelings today, send me an angel to lift me out of despair. Help me to recognize that I am not alone in this life. show me a way to rise above my sorrow and reach out to others. I put my trust in you. Wrap me in your loving arms as I go about my day. Help me to have a deeper understanding of myself and others so that I can feel your Divine presence in every thing. Om _ Peace _ Amen.
my sacred space/altar
Create a Sacred Space in your home where you can just be.
Whether it’s a corner of a room or ideally a whole room, decorate it, paint it your favorite color. add uplifting words and pictures, or things from Nature.
Bring in some soothing music or even music that you enjoyed at your happiest times.
Make this your go-to place of retreat where you can work through your feelings and pour your heart out to God or your chosen source of comfort.
Wear your favorite colors. What colors are you drawn to? think about this for a minute. There’s a reason you are drawn to certain colors. They can help heal you! Honor the impulse. buy some new underwear. Go shopping and try on some clothes that are totally out-of-the-box from you usual. Your fantasy self. You may discover that you like some aspects and incorporate them into your wardrobe.
Try wearing natural gemstone jewelry.
Visit a crystal shop and discover which ones you are drawn to. Keep your favorite crystal next to your bed. or on your mini-altar.
Citrine for Joy!
Amethyst for peace.
Rose Quartz for love and connecting to your heart center.
Walk through your home.
Is there any clutter?
Images that don’t uplift?
Old tired or broken furniture?
If so, they are depleting your energy every time you pass by them.
If you can’t muster up the energy to do it yourself, then call someone to come and help you.
a cheerful house cleaner could be just what you need.
Sit down and draw a picture of your home.
Or start with one room.
Put your drawing in a chair and sit across from it.
Have a conversation with this room or with your house drawing.
Ask it what it needs.
Write down what ever comes up.
You may be surprised.
Be sure to take action on whatever it tells you.
This is a fun exercise.
I hope you try it.
Herb garden, parsley and sage
Try planting a garden.
Working with plants can be very uplifting.
Bring some fresh greenery indoors. Or a big fresh bouquet of flowers!
Plan an herb garden in your kitchen window.
Open the windows and let the fresh air come in. Bring more light in.
Is there enough lighting in each room? Add some lamps for ambient lighting.
Clean the windows so the natural light can fill your space. This will help you “see” what’s blocking you.
Try a clay pot tray for your smudge wand
Have you smudged yourself lately?
Sage wand – dispels negative energy and clears the air of heavy dross. It also carries your prayers on the smoke!
Sweet Grass – Brings in the beautiful, positive energies.
Nag Champa insense is used in temples. I always burn this after cleaning a room. It brings a calming influence, and my family loves it!
Palo Santo is my new favorite insense! It brings in a soft intimate feel to the room, enhances intuition, and opens your mind to see more clearly.
Eucalyptus Room Spray – energizes, clears stagnant energy, freshens, and discourages dust mites.
Lavender – is a loving, peaceful, and comforting sent.
rose – is very beautiful, romantic, and soft, helps you feel from your heart.
Orange Blossom – uplifting, happy.
( see how I make my own smudge spray here.)
Spend time in Nature!
Dancing Plumeria trees
This is where I feel most connected to Source. Spend some time hanging out with trees. They are known as the “tall ones standing, praying” in the Native American culture.
They will help you on your journey and lift some of your burdens.
Do you have a pet?
Animals are very prescient of what’s going on with us.
They have been some of my greatest healers.
I used to cry to my cat, Monkey. He would stay with me , purring, comforting me.
I also had the opportunity to care for a boston terrier named Lucy. She would come into my room every morning and get me out for a walk. We would hang out at the park and commune with the trees. I received so much healing during that time.
Hobbies – Do you have a hobby? Now’s the time to dive right in to that hobby. It will help you shift your mind to something creative. Try something new. And remember all art is perfect! and so are you, just the way you are!
Try this prayer, or wish wall hanging made from old magazines, a tree branch, wooden clothespins, some bakers twine, and your positive intentions or affirmations!
You can learn how here.
Try to eat some raw, living food at least once a day – Organic fruits and vegetables.
Drink lots of pure water.
Get a massage
Clean your colon. A lot of trapped emotions could be sitting in your colon, causing mental and emotional pain
Find a professional colon therapist with five or more years of experience, who uses the “closed” method. Go in for at least three treatments over a three week period.
Dearest Cottage Mavens,
All of these things will work to help you get in touch with your emotions and start the chi or energy flowing in your life again.
But you must take action. One day at a time, and with much gentleness as you go about your journey to wellness.
With much love, Cottage Necessities
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